Lots daughters (Part 1)
But before they retired for the night, all the men of Sodom, young and old, came from all over the city and surrounded the house. They shouted to Lot, “Where are the men who came to spend the night with you? Bring them out to us so we can have sex with them! ”So Lot stepped outside to talk to them, shutting the door behind him. “Please, my brothers,” he begged, “don’t do such a wicked thing. Look, I have two virgin daughters. Let me bring them out to you, and you can do with them as you wish. But please, leave these men alone, for they are my guests and are under my protection.” Genesis 19:4-8
In today’s world, it’s all too common to adopt a mindset of apathy. When faced with challenging situations, we can either choose to turn a blind eye, carry on with our routines, or take meaningful actions. We often overlook and forget the power and authority we have through Christ Jesus.
“For His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence. Through these He has granted to us His precious and magnificent promises, so that by them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world on account of lust.” (2 Peter 1:3-4)
Understanding our position frees us from the pain of betrayal. This teaching reminds us of the serious consequences that can occur when we put our desires above the needs of others. This story should inspire a passionate response, urging us to wholeheartedly accept our role as “His chosen people,” dedicated to helping those who are ensnared or limited by betrayal- beginning with me!
In moments like these, we often overlook that our earthly Father can only give us what they are prepared to confront, release, and triumph over with the help of the Holy Spirit. This makes me wonder if Lot meant what he said. This story appears more as a submission to their social expectations, which seems to explain his decision. While not everyone may experience such a deep betrayal, we have all felt its impact in some way.
The impact of our earthly father whether present, absent, or absentminded- can profoundly shape our live in a positive or negative way. This poses a considerable challenge to our identity as woman of God. Such experiences can skew our understanding and relationship with our Heavenly Father. It can also affect our roles as wives, often causing us to adopt a standard of submission contrary to the Word Of God. It can also influences how we engage with male figures in our lives, including our bosses, pastors, leaders….
We must begin to understand how our earthly father treated us does not define our values or imply that we were bad daughters. This misleading belief can prevent us from fully experiencing the love and grace our heavenly Father offers us. He sees us in our true splendor, as expressed in scripture, ”For I know the plans I have for you, declare the Lord, plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.” (Jeremiah 29:11) We are forgiven, chosen and are a daughter of the King. We frequently overlook this truth and all His promises because of the betrayals we experience. This occurs when we wish for grace for ourselves while wanting justice for others. Yet, that’s not how God operates or how He views us. Even in our toughest moments, God sees Jesus in us when He gazes upon us! Let this truth resonate deeply within you and stop disqualifying yourself!
It’s completely understandable to wonder, ”Why would someone treat thier daughters this way? What could have motivated such action? How could anyone “righteous” act like that?” I encourage you to redirect your viewpoint. When faced with betrayal or injustice, consider ask yourself, “What part do I play in this situation?” Here are some examples:
- Do you believe Christ is your ultimate source of healing?
- Our response: “How do we talk about the person that betrayed us?”
- Are we willing to truly forgive them?
- Can we move past the betrayal?
- Are you ready to confront it directly?
- Can you offer a prayer of blessing over thier lives?
These examples may seem absurd, but they are essential for your healing and restoration. It’s all too easy to slip into a victim mentality when faced with betrayal. This way of thinking can distract us from what we genuinely seek. What are you prepared to give those who betrayed you? Will you reciprocate what was given to you or will you choose to extend the gifts of forgiveness, grace, and restoration that Christ offers us?
The path that leads to healing starts with us, even if it feels unfair. Healing occurs when someone is ready to humble themselves and, make amends first! Let me be clear: I’m not suggesting that you need to keep these individuals in your life and endure their betrayal repeatedly. It’s crucial to forgive them for our well-being and to discern where the Lord leads you from that point onward.
Prayer:
Heavenly Father, I come to you with a heart ready to let go of my betrayal of….. I understand how vital it is to forgive those who have wronged me….. (who betrayed you), but I also recognize the need to forgive myself for……… (your shortcomings). Today, I choose to release and surrender my betrayals into Your hands. Holy Spirit, I ask for you to deliver me from…. (all sins you enjoyed). Please open my eyes, mind, body, and heart to embrace the person you have destined me to be. May all the allures of Sodom no longer satisfy my deepest longing or define my worth.
Wipe away the painful memories associated with this place…..(name the place) from my thoughts. Today, I commit to run from it and never look back. As I move forward, obliterate this city within me. Holy Spirit began building who I was destined to be. Jeremiah 18:4, “He was making a pot from clay. but there was something wrong with the pot. So the potter used the same clay to make another pot. With his hands, he shaped the pot he wanted it to be.” Isaiah 64:8, “And yet, O Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, and you are the potter. We all are formed by your hands.” Regardless of what tomorrow brings, I trust, believe, and hold fast to your promises. I ask you Lord to be my Father! I praise, worship, and thank you for being such a loving Father. AMEN!
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