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“There he came to a cave and spent the night in it; and behold, the word of the Lord came to him, and He said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” 1 Kings 19:9

If I were to ask you, “Where do you go or what do you seek when you find yourself isolating?” I believe our responses would depend on the situation. Isolation takes on different forms for each of us, yet its fundamental purpose remains the same. Causes us to become cut off from the world or to retreat to a sacred place for prayer, rest, and a deeper connection with God. (James 4:8) At times, we enter isolation by choice, while at other times, it is imposed upon us. However, we always have the choice to decide how we emerge from our season of isolation.

Throughout the scriptures, we encounter many examples of people experiencing isolation during various phases of their lives. Joseph found himself in a well (Gen. 37:23-28), Daniel was thrown into a lion’s den (Dan. 6), Elijah took refuge in a cave (1 Kings 19:9), a woman suffering from a blood issue was deemed unclean/isolated (Mark 5:25-34), Jesus retreated in the wilderness (Matt. 4:1-11), Lazarus was confined in a tomb (John 11:1-44), and John faced exile on an island (Rev. 1:9), among others. In each case, God was with them. Although they entered their periods of isolation in different ways, they all emerged from their caves triumphant. After going through these testimonies, we should feel inspired and reminded that we are not alone.

The Lord said, “What are you doing here?”

 Wiersbe’s commentary states regarding 1 Kings 19:9, “Elijah was physically exhausted and had lost his appetite. He was depressed about himself and his work and was being controlled more and more by self-pity. “I only am left!” Instead of turning to others for help, he isolated himself and—worst of all—he wanted to die. The prophet concluded that he had failed in his mission and decided it was time to quit. But the Lord didn’t see it that way. He always looks beyond our changing moods and impetuous prayers, and He pities us the way parents pity their discouraged children (Ps. 103:13–14).”

Similar to Elijah, when we first find ourselves in a state of isolation, what feelings accompany our entry? For many, it may resonate with what Elijah described, or it could serve as a sanctuary of rest and closeness where we can turn to the Father for HELP! However, we seldom pause to reflect on this question: “What triggered me to this point?” As we find ourselves in this period of isolation, our emotions become heightened to the point that clear thinking eludes us. Why is that? It’s because we often neglect to pause and explore our feelings. This is why it’s essential to take the time to pause and contemplate this question, rather than dismissing it, brushing it off, or saying, “I’ll just move past it.” Understanding how to embrace vulnerability during our isolation is where our healing journey begins. We are not always required to face these moments by ourselves, yet we often convince ourselves that we can or that we already are.

It’s far easier to concentrate on falsehoods that ultimately align us with negative beliefs about who we are and the situations we face that are familiar to us. Don’t justify your isolation, but I challenge you to expose it in your secret place. (a place where you are alone with God)

During these times of isolation, keeping a journal at both the beginning and the end of each season is crucial.  Write down your experiences through both the peaks and valleys. This practice helps us discern when our feelings push us to withdraw versus when we genuinely need to grieve and find healing in the presence of the Lord. Once the season concludes, review your journal entries with a mentor or counselor. Then explore key aspects of your writing that resonate or seem to recur. Then,  search for scriptures to pray over the situations we’ve discussed. This allows the Holy Spirit to uncover the triggers or open doors in our lives. This journey clarifies where our cycle of distress starts and finishes. This approach has been incredibly beneficial in my path to recovery and healing: mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

What is God trying to show you during your times of isolation? Are you listening? (Matt. 11:15) Isolation may initially feel like a refuge, but the ultimateaim is to learn how to emerge victorious, revitalized, and renewed by the Holy Spirit each time you walk out of the cave.

“Be still before the Lord; wait patiently for Him and entrust yourself to Him;
Do not fret (whine, agonize) because of him who prospers in his way, because of the man who carries out wicked schemes. Cease from anger and abandon wrath; Do not fret; it leads only to evil.” Psalms 37:7-8

How does one handle an injustice that strikes deep, leaving you feeling belittled, scorned, and defeated? As if you were nothing more than a footstool under the enemy’s feet, while others revel in their victory. Suddenly, both old and new thoughts began to surge forth, like vivid memories we believed we had forgiven, or perhaps set aside, because we thought they didn’t affect us. These thoughts begin to crash into our minds and tug at our hearts like a relentless tidal wave hitting the sand. Its ultimate purpose is to drown us, overpower us, instill pain, and make it incredibly hard to move forward.

How do we relinquish the anger, the knot in our stomach, and the resentment we experience, and instead seek HELP from God?  During times of injustice, verses like Psalms 37:7-8 may not be what we desire to hear at that moment, yet they are precisely what we need.  Why is that?  It all comes down to how we approach scripture. Are we being force-fed, or are we savoring it one bite at a time? This allows the Word of God to become the help we are asking for! These steps encourage us to remain still, to wait with patience, to trust in Him, not to fret, and to discover His peace through forgiveness.

Step #1: For many of us, finding stillness doesn’t come naturally. However, when confronted with an injustice, it is vital to take a seat, take a deep breath, and pause for a brief moment. Embracing stillness grants us the time to reflect and process what has transpired. This may sometimes involve crying, shouting, and so forth, but choosing to remain in this space until you discover peace and stillness within your soul!

Step #2: When we finally calm down, our hearts are open to receiving, listening, and praying.  While we pray, we patiently await Him to speak to us and bring healing to our hearts, minds, and emotions. At this moment, I would ask the Lord, “Heal me! Remove this anger and sense of injustice from my heart. I don’t wish to bear this burden, yet I find it hard to let it go! Help me!” This process enables us to trust in God’s timing, shields our hearts, minds, and emotions from anxiety, frustration, and bitterness as we begin to let go of our grievances. ( John 14:27) After this, I would encourage you to begin praising and worshiping the Lord, as He begins to heal us inside out.

Step #3: Trusting in God enables us to let go of control over our lives and fully entrust our hearts, future, and well-being into God’s loving hands. This empowers us to release our grip on the injustice we feel by relinquishing control of how justice should be served. (Rom. 12:19)

Step #4: Each day, we must intentionally choose to renew our minds to avoid fretting about the injustices we have already entrusted to Christ.(Rom. 12:2)  Letting go helps us avoid fixating on it, stressing over it, and talking about it. The enemy will attempt to keep it at the forefront of our minds, but we must decide to look beyond those thoughts, view the person as Christ does, pray for those involved, and speak blessings over their lives. This habit keeps us liberated! (Philip 4:6-7)

Step #5: Having gone through all these steps, His peace enables us to embark on the journey of embracing forgiveness. Forgiveness is a journey we undertake as “We Go”. It is not the conclusion of our path, but rather the beginning. It unfolds in layers and requires time, yet we must consciously decide to walk in forgiveness. When fresh layers of a situation resurface, we face a choice: to remain free or to pick it up once more.

 Having gone through this myself just a week ago, I can confirm that although it is difficult, it can also be a path to healing if we permit ourselves the necessary time to recover. Forgiveness of an injustice is a journey, so be kind to yourself when it becomes tough at times.

Remember, there is Power in the Words of God that shatters the injustice that we once thought broke us! (Heb. 4:12)

“The wise woman builds her house [on a foundation of godly precepts, and her household thrives], but the foolish one [who lacks spiritual insight] tears it down with her own hands [by ignoring godly principles]. He who walks in uprightness [reverently] fears the Lord [and obeys and worships Him with profound respect], but he who is devious in his ways despises Him.” Proverbs 14:1-2

Proverbs 14:1 reminds us that a wise woman has a profound respect for the Lord and actively seeks divine truths as she starts to create her home. This indicates that we should consistently choose to cultivate a deep sense of awe, respect, intimacy, and dedication to following our Father’s will. As we begin to build, it is crucial to recognize that the foundation we establish mirrors the essence and qualities of our worldview (the perspective through which we shape our belief system). Ultimately, this will determine what we allow to take root in our home: The Word (of God) or (the ways of the) World.

The question remains: Are we truly embodying the spirit of a wise woman or a foolish one? I encourage you to ponder this: When in doubt, pay attention to the words you are speaking because they will bring forth life or death (Prov. 18:21). I mention this not as a criticism, but to highlight the misconceptions that hinder us from realizing our potential as a Wise Woman of God. It’s never too late to invite Christ to examine our lives at the very core and root of our foundation. Transformation begins within us and spreads outward. Resulting in the restoration of everything else. When we permit Christ to begin molding our foundation, a transformation takes place in both the natural and spiritual realms.   

Our personal growth emerges from our willingness to obey the Holy Spirit during times of pain and hardship, and I certainly experienced plenty of both. This is why being part of a fellowship and community is crucial, as “iron sharpens iron” (Prov. 27:17) on our journey to reflect His nature and attributes upon which we can build. While society may imply that being a wise woman of God is not enough, this is a misunderstanding; it is exactly what He requires, and it yields so much more.

So, get up, shake off the dust, and begin walking out who you were called to be, “A wise woman of God!”

“…He who walks in uprightness [reverently] fears the Lord [and obeys and worships Him with profound respect],” Prov. 14:2a

Too often, we encounter individuals who claim to be followers of Christ, yet their lifestyle reflects their old nature. Still, we often overlook this and accept their claims without examining their fruit. The goal is not to “doubt or question their faith.” Instead, it is to hold one another accountable as we walk out our Salvation. By pursuing Him, we can journey together with Him and fellow believers, which helps prevent us from becoming isolated. This companionship enables us to notice when we start to drift away from His path. Thus, accountability and discipleship play a crucial role in our journey in following Christ.

Tradition leads us to believe that Salvation is merely a result of our familial ties, good works, or inherited beliefs. Some believe that Salvation can be attained by memorizing scripture or by acting as an ‘armchair expert.’ Some view their family’s church as their path to Salvation. Others rely on their church membership. Meanwhile, some imitate someone who embodies their faith. When we care for others’ spiritual journey, we want them to find their place in the kingdom of God. This desire is based on the “unique individual” God created each of us to be! ( Jeremiah. 1:5) A longing for you to be a follower and not a pursuer of a false gospel.

The world claims this decision will damage your pride and reputation, but in reality, it’s quite the opposite. Purpose is revealed in a manner that the world cannot satisfy. A veil is lifted from our eyes and allows us to see ( 2 Cor. 3:16-18).

Think about your walk and ask, “Are my actions clear that I am a follower of Christ? How about the way I talk, walk, act, and respond? Is my commitment obvious? Do others want to follow me because of ‘Who’ I reflect?” Remember, this question isn’t about adhering to religious obligations or customs. Rather, it focuses on a dedicated, evolving relationship! This shows the closeness of seeking Christ at a deeper level every day. If you find yourself uncertain, think about deciding to leave everything behind and choose to follow Him. If you haven’t done so already, begin your journey requires accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Here is a sample Salvation prayer. Recite this prayer aloud so you can hear it, visualize it, and articulate it. This ensures it becomes imprinted in your heart.

Salvation Prayer: “Heavenly Father, I come to you in the mighty name of Jesus. I confess that I am a sinner, and I repent of all my sins… Thank you for cleansing me through the blood of Jesus Christ. I believe that Jesus is your Son. He died on the cross for my sins. He rose again. I ask you to forgive me of all my sins, and I invite you to dwell in my life. I accept you as my Lord and Savior and commit to following you all the days of my life. I choose to follow you from this day forth. Thank you for saving me. Thank you for choosing me. Thank you for adopting me as your (son or daughter). In Jesus’ name, Amen!

If you stated this prayer, I challenge you to tell someone. It’s by the confession of your mouth that you confirm to your heart, mind, and flesh. You are in Christ now, a new creation. Your old nature has passed away! A few scriptures to support the Salvation prayer: Acts 2:21, Romans 10:9-10, and Ephesians 1:13

Give the Holy Spirit access to your life. Pray: “Holy Spirit, I give you access to lead me in the way you want me to go. Teach me how to use the tools you’ve given me to complete your work here on earth. Help me to be patient, kind, and filled with your love, the fruits of your spirit and wisdom. Guide me, renew my mind, and empower me to live, see, and hear according to your will. I surrender all of me, and I submit to your Spirit. I thank you for the Gift of Your Spirit, Your discernment, and Your power. All for Your glory. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

A few Scriptures to support inviting the Holy Spirit into your heart: Acts 1:8, 2 Corinthians. 1:21-22, Romans 8:9, and John 14:16-17.

As believers in Christ, it is crucial to recognize and embrace your identity and role within the kingdom of Heaven. When we wholeheartedly understand that we are genuinely a child of God, obeying Him becomes a lifelong adventure. Although it is not always easy, there exists a fulfilling purpose!

“O taste and see that the Lord [our God] is good;
How blessed [fortunate, prosperous, and favored by God] is the man who takes refuge in Him.” Psalm 34:8

The essence of taste influences what we crave, and that craving is the Word of God. God’s word nourishes our souls. It enhances our desire for Him. This happens through a process of engaging with His Word, presence, and action in our lives. It involves actively pursuing Him and allowing His goodness to fill our heart, mind, soul, and spirit. Consider this: when we follow Christ, the veil that obscured our vision is lifted.

This revelation enables us to see and appreciate the goodness of God. As we connect with Christ, we start to grasp His character, attributes, and faithfulness in a real and meaningful way.

The Lord is good: this encapsulates His fundamental message. He wants us to know and experience His goodness and to trust Him, especially in challenging times. For He is our refuge and strength. We should deepen our understanding of God. We also need to actively seek and experience His presence and goodness in our lives. Don’t focus on religion, church politics, protocol, law, or control. It’s about tasting, experiencing, seeing, duplicating, and manifesting the goodness of God. I challenge you to set aside any religious spirit or traditions. Exchange it all by taking up His cross. Follow Him!

“Continually pursue peace with everyone, and the sanctification without which no one will [ever] see the Lord. ¹⁵ See to it that no one falls short of God’s grace; that no root of resentment springs up and causes trouble, and by it many be defiled;” Hebrews 12:14-15

As we pursue cultivating good fruit in our lives, we must be cautious. Our internal root system shouldn’t be infected with fungi (bitterness). In the Bible, bitterness is portrayed as a profound resentment or unforgiveness. It also includes pride, rebellion, or anger. These emotions can adversely affect an individual’s spiritual well-being and relationships. These forms of bitterness listed above will, over time, poison your roots in your spiritual and then physical life. This makes it impossible for us to experience internal peace, let alone pursue peace with everyone, as scripture states.

“Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor [perpetual animosity, resentment, strife, fault-finding] and slander be put away from you, along with every kind of malice [all spitefulness, verbal abuse, malevolence]. ³² Be kind and helpful to one another, tender-hearted [compassionate, understanding], forgiving one another [readily and freely], just as God in Christ also forgave you.” Eph. 4:31-32

Let’s examine the contrast between Fungi in the tree and the spiritual bitterness that resides in our hearts.

Fungi and bitterness share similarities due to their inherent characteristics, growth patterns, and possible impacts. Spiritual bitterness quietly takes root in the heart, gradually tainting one’s spirit. In a like manner, fungi within a tree thrive out of sight, often remaining undetected until their consequences are revealed. In both cases, the indicators are not readily apparent. Yet, they can emerge through their manifestation. They can also emerge through their conduct and physical results.

Spiritual bitterness thrives on old wounds. It feeds on feelings of injustice and negative thinking. This leads to an obsession with grievances and perpetuates resentment. Similarly, fungi on a tree serve as decomposes, flourishing on rotting roots and decomposing organic material.

Spiritual bitterness leads to harmful behaviors such as anger, malice, and slander. These behaviors impact not just the person but also their connections with others. This negativity creates a hardened heart that hinders their spirit. Similarly, fungi on a tree are recognized for their destructive nature and can cause diseases. The proliferation of these fungal infections can severely harm the root system.

Overcoming bitterness through our strength can be quite difficult. It demands a deliberate choice to forgive, release, and pursue healing.  This journey requires the transformative power of Jesus Christ. Similarly, just like a tree suffering from stubborn fungal infections, it requires external intervention. The infections are tough to eradicate and often need a steady and focused approach.

Cultivating harmony with others requires a mindset that is always prepared to forgive. Living a life of holiness before the Lord demands this mindset too. Although this is not an easy task, it is crucial. This requires obedience. It enables us to be open. We must be willing to accept correction. We should be obedient to the Holy Spirit. We also need to be attentive to God’s guidance. We can achieve this by choosing to see others through Christ’s perspective. This viewpoint empowers us to “bear” the fruit of peace. It guides us toward a life of righteousness (being in right standing with God). While it may not be straightforward, it is our responsibility to keep the roots far from us.

Christ desires for us to remove all traces of past and current bitterness or resentment. Traits of bitterness can be passed down from our lineage. During our formative years, we absorb our family’s customs and belief frameworks. We take in their views on others. We often adopt critical or judgmental attitudes. These suggest we are superior or better than others. This comes along with a sense of Pride.  If this holds true, we need to uncover the root “familiar spirit” in our lives. It ensnares us and pulls us back into our cycle of chaos. This occurrence is commonly known as a generational curse. Nevertheless, Christ aims to dig deep into the roots of our hearts and eradicate them entirely.

When we focus on Him, the Holy Spirit intervenes. He starts addressing the core of our hearts’ bitterness. This intervention leads us to freedom. Once revealed, we must be obedient throughout the process. With His help, this journey becomes possible to forgive and repent. We must allow Him to prune and mend our roots and hearts. Forgiveness and repentance are crucial for our complete healing and restoration. When we permit Christ to reach the root of our fruit, He cleanses it from its source. If we ignore this, the bitter fruit will continue to grow. We will spiritually decay before we know it. This is what robs us of our peace! Today, decide to no longer allow our bitterness to defile our fruits. Choose to embrace forgiveness and experience His genuine peace. Pause and Pray..

“Peace I leave with you; My [perfect] peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Do not let your heart be troubled, nor let it be afraid. [Let My perfect peace calm you in every circumstance and give you courage and strength for every challenge.]” John 14:27

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Now, early in the morning, as Jesus was coming back to the city, He was hungry. Seeing a lone fig tree at the roadside, He went to it and found nothing but leaves on it; and He said to it, “Never again will fruit come from you.” And at once the fig tree withered.…” Mark 21:18-22

The barren Fig Tree appeared to bear fruit but was empty of anything valuable. Jesus warns us not to be misled by appearances but to focus on “The fruit.” When the disciples saw the tree’s leaves, they assumed it would yield fruit during its due season.

The purpose of the leaves is to generate nourishment and safeguard the seed as it matures into quality fruit. The barren tree seemed promising due to its beautiful leaves. This led us to believe it was fruitful, yet behind those leaves, no flowers were forming, nor was fruit being produced.

As Jesus approached to examine the tree, He found no signs of any forthcoming fruit. This serves as a caution; do not let the deceptive nature of appearances lead you astray, so He cursed the tree. Why? We often forget that our fruit (gifts) isn’t intended for us. It’s actually intended for those passing by.

Similar to the way this tree looks, we must take a closer look before allowing someone to influence our lives. Is thier “fruit good” or do thier leaves appear appealing? Have you thought about whether this is a fruit you would like to consume and reproduce? This calls for us to stop and observe their life, how they interact with others, thier character and qualities, and whether they possess the fruits of the Spirit. If they don’t reflect Christ, overlooking these indicators may result in us being misled, hurt, and deceived.

Many of us can be deceived, much like this fig tree. Why does this happen? We need to constantly assess the state of our hearts and desires ( what we crave). If we focus on a “fig tree” that looks like what we desire rather than the “One” we genuinely need, we must be cautious! This scenario occurs when we neglect to let the Holy Spirit, through the scripture, feed our body, soul, mind, and spirit. When we turn our gaze towards Him, it strengthens our faith and allows us to perceive beyond the physical world.

If we articulate our beliefs and possess a solid understanding of scripture, yet remain unfruitful, we are no different from this fig tree. Why is this the case? Being religious doesn’t necessitate faith! What it truly requires is faith (a personal trust and confidence in Him). When we live by faith, the scripture tells us,“…you will not only do what was done to the fig tree, but even if you say to this mountain,’ be taken up and thrown into the sea,’ it will happen. And whatever you ask for in prayer, believing, you will receive.”  This occurs when we cultivate intimacy with Christ by dedicating time to reflect, draw near, and allow Him to reveal and eliminate any aspects that contradict His nature.

I challenge you to take a moment and consider whether you tend to follow mere appearances or seek genuine fruit. This is especially crucial if we are hesitant to confront our issues of the heart. By reflecting on our hearts, we can avoid becoming false prophets, much like the “Barren Fig Tree,” and protect ourselves from being misled or misleading others.

Keep in mind, you will reflect what we choose to follow (the fruit you eat)! Who are you following: appearances or Jesus Christ?

LOT & HIS WIFE

‘When they were safely out of the city, one of the angels ordered, “Run for your lives! And don’t look back or stop anywhere in the valley! Escape to the mountains, or you will be swept away!” Genesis 19:17

“But Lot’s wife looked back as she was following behind him, and she turned into a pillar of salt.” Genesis 19:26

Run From: How we think and talk

Have we taken a moment to thank God for the countless times He has protected us from “Sodom” temptation in looking back? Understanding this principle is crucial! I would like you to start by reflecting honestly on how we communicate.

1. Do we communicate our yearning for or reminisce about our past “Sodom” experiences, clinging to the notion of them as our “good old days?”
2. Do we communicate our focus on God’s incredible promises, share our testimonies, acknowledge His faithfulness, get excited when He encounters us, and express our gratitude for His perfect timing? Let’s recall those moments when God opened doors for us to have these conversations with others.

Be cautious about the topics you discuss with others. There’s a distinction between sharing your testimony and dwelling on the past. I encourage you to reflect on your heart after each conversation to determine whether your words are rooted in the Word of God or influenced by worldly perspectives. Adopting this approach will strengthen us to persevere and achieve greatness! That’s a narrative worth sharing!

Discussing our past in a vague context without a clear purpose can be quite risky and foolish. Such aimless chatter is exactly what the enemy thrives on, as it provides him with opportunities to sow doubt in our beliefs, commitments, and even our healing journey. Certainly, Lot’s wife must have made significant choices before she ultimately decided to look back. Yet, the focus should be on how she/we finished, not just how we began. Instead of rationalizing her one critical moment, let’s learn from it.

This weekend a pastor said this quote, “The devil will wait 30 years for 1 moment to destroy our 30 years.”

Run From: Complacent and lose sight of our Purpose

Proverbs 1:32, “For simpletons turn away from me—to death.
    Fools are destroyed by their own complacency.”

Often, we overlook the choices we make which can result in a sense of complacency along our path. This complacency can hinder our development, creating a perilous situation, particularly if we end up stuck in our own version of “Sodom.” Here are some question to ponder:

1. Where do we find ourselves questioning God’s guidance?
2. In what areas are we permitting small “Sodom” to seem acceptable?
3. Are we steering the course, or is He the one steering?
4. What desires distract us and draw our gaze away from Him?

The story of Lot’s wife serves as an important reminder of how complacency can lead us to lose sight of our true purpose. Our purpose is to be “Clean” so God can use me!” If we allow ourselves to be distracted, even by minor things, we risk missing out on what we are meant to achieve as she did. I urge you to realign and position yourself for His mission. It’s essential to identify what occupies your thoughts daily; failing to do so stunt your spiritual growth.

Song of Solomon 2:15 states, “..the little foxes that spoil the vine, for our vines have tender grapes.” It’s the small things that matter.

Philippians 3:14-15, ” I press on toward the goal to win the [heavenly] prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus. All of us who are mature [pursuing spiritual perfection] should have this attitude. And if in any respect you have a different attitude, that too God will make clear to you.”

Run From: Indecisiveness

In our most difficult times, it can be hard to feel His presence. However, when we take a moment to reflect, we often discover that God has been with us every step of the way. His timing is perfect. ” ….Yet God made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end.” ( Eccl. 3:1-11)

Our hesitation to progress frequently arises from the tempting allure of earthly delights. This becomes clear when we encounter pressing choices, as our responses often expose our underlying uncertainties. The scripture remind us in verse 16, “When Lot still hesitated, the angels seized his hand and the hands of his wife and two daughters and rushed them to safety outside the city, for the Lord was merciful.”

Lot’s indecisiveness had a profound impact on his family, causing his wife to question the very beliefs they once held dear. It’s essential to identify the familiar spirits in our lives, as hesitation often bears negative consequences. If we take a moment for introspection, we should ask ourselves: “What is the root of our hesitation?” This question is vital. It can impede our personal growth, lead us to overlook opportunities, where our obedience lies, amplify our doubts, and can sometimes create confusion. Ultimately, it ensnares us in a cycle of turmoil. This uncertainty can than affect our spouse and children, putting our legacy at risk. As highlighted in James 1:6, “But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind.”  

Run From: What causes you to look back?

What prompted Lot’s wife to glance back? this question leads me to ponder: What drive me to revisit my own history? Reflecting on past experiences can provide meaningful insight, but if we linger there too long, it can impede our growth in the present. I truly believe there are appropriate times and places to reminisce about the past, but it’s essential to do so in a safe environment where the Holy Spirit is welcomed to prevent triggering unresolved feelings.

In the biblical narrative, they were cautioned against looking back, yet she made that choice. This serves as an important reminder of the consequences that can arise from ignoring divine guidance. These consequences may not always manifest as physical demise, but they can certainly lead to a spiritual decline. What fuels your urge to look back? Is it a desire or a joyful memory? A wish to share your story? Or is there something unresolved that you haven’t fully confronted?

These inquiries are crucial because, as we reflect, we may yearn for the significant moment that has influenced our current path. Which aspects of your past do you see as, “God redeemed,” yet still find yourself nostalgically recalling your “old Sodom” with a sense of pride, perhaps without even realizing it? It’s important to distinguish between looking back and sharing your narrative without being bound to those experiences. Have we truly moved on from those chapters in our lives? Are they genuinely forgotten? Or is there still healing to be done, especially since this is a story we often revisit in different seasons of our lives?

RUN TOO JESUS

What we often overlook is that Jesus is for us not against us! He also inspires fellow believers to pray for our shackles to be removed, our eyes to see, and to be completely delivered. How frequently do we lose sight of the fact that Jesus communicates with the Father on our behalf? These scriptures remind us of this truth.

• Who then will condemn us? No one—for Christ Jesus died for us and was raised to life for us, and he is sitting in the place of honor at God’s right hand, pleading for us.” Romans 8:34
• “My dear children, I am writing this to you so that you will not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate who pleads our case before the Father. He is Jesus Christ, the one who is truly righteous.” 1 John 2:1
• “Therefore he is able, once and forever, to save^[a] those who come to God through him. He lives forever to intercede with God on their behalf.” Hebrew 7:25

Take a moment to reflect:

1. In which aspects of your life is the Holy Spirit actively trying to steer you clear of peril? Are you holding back or are you choosing to let go?
2. Have you noticed how the prevailing culture’s desires, attitudes, and indifference influencing your life.
3. Have you permitted the Holy Spirit to sanctify your existence? This involves being set apart, committing yourself entirely, relinquishing control, rejecting fear, and embracing devotion.
4. Are you cultivating a deeper affection for Jesus, nurturing a childlike faith and trust, and being obedience to the guidance of the Holy Spirit?

Stay alert and avoid becoming too comfortable with your successes, as the Holy Spirit is continually inviting us to draw near to Him: step by step, moment by moment, day by day. As we move forward, we should seek His guidance to remove any obstacles that cause us to hesitate or distract us. While Christ can pave the way ahead, the decision to embrace that path or delay it rest with us. Why is this important? When we find certain sins easy to accept, we start to rationalize them. We might think, “This won’t lead to serious consequences, so I can just ignore it and keep going.” In doing so, we unwittingly hand the enemy a key to our hearts, making the temptation to look back seem harmless.

Embracing progress demands certain traits: owning our choices, gaining wisdom from our errors, cultivating resilience, daring to take fresh risks, recognizing that setbacks are integral to growth, welcoming feedback, and having the courage to rise, brush ourselves off, and continue our journey together!

POTIPHAR’S WIFE

“…Joseph was a very handsome and well-built young man, and Potiphar’s wife soon began to look at him lustfully. “Come and sleep with me,” she demanded. But Joseph refused. “Look,” he told her, “my master trusts me with everything in his entire household. No one here has more authority than I do. He has held back nothing from me except you, because you are his wife. How could I do such a wicked thing? It would be a great sin against God. ”She kept putting pressure on Joseph day after day, but he refused to sleep with her, and he kept out of her way as much as possible. One day, however, no one else was around when he went in to do his work. She came and grabbed him by his cloak, demanding, “Come on, sleep with me!” Joseph tore himself away, but he left his cloak in her hand as he ran from the house. When she saw that she was holding his cloak and he had fled, she called out to her servants. Soon all the men came running. “Look!” she said. “My husband has brought this Hebrew slave here to make fools of us! He came into my room to rape me, but I screamed. When he heard me scream, he ran outside and got away, but he left his cloak behind with me. She kept the cloak with her until her husband came home.” (Genesis 39:6-16)

What ignites the first spark of a lustful thought or gaze? When our cravings and longing are not fulfilled in Christ, they often seek satisfaction elsewhere. This often manifests as some form of sexual desire. A glance look from a lustful eye can unleash a flood of fantasies about an individual. Before we realize it, we may have already engaged in an emotional affair with them in our thoughts and feelings. “But I say, anyone who even looks at a man with lust has already committed adultery with him in her heart.” (Matt. 5:28 emphasized) This desire can quickly escalate, leading us to pursue whatever it takes to fulfill our wants. This yearning drives us to take control of our passions’ narrative. It is shaped by what we see and imagine. We pursue this at all costs.

This passage reveals that Potiphar’s wife insisted Joseph come to her and sleep with her. It was not a mere request or suggestion; it was a directive. In these opening verses, we can see her desire to manipulate the situation. She wants to emphasize their relationship and exert control over him. She steers the conversation and shapes the environment. She asserts her superiority over him. These traits reveal the characteristics of having a spirit of Jezebel.

Potiphar’s wife demeaned Joseph by trying to lure him onto her bed. She might have thought, “Isn’t he just a Jew and a slave? He works for my husband, which means he works for me too. With my husband absent, I hold the power, and Joseph is my subordinate. He must obey me.” She views Joseph as an object. She does not see him as a human being. When he rejects her advance, she soon turns on him. It’s crucial to pause and think. We must think about the times we have exploited others. This happens due to our lack of self-control and sense of superiority.

Exercise self-control is crucial for truly reflecting the Fruits of the Spirit! Without the indwelling of Christ’s spirit in our lives, we can’t genuinely access His self-control. This self-control serves as the foundation for His love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, faithfulness, and gentleness. (Gal. 5:22-23) In its absence, we face a counterfeit of Christ’s spirit. When we do not wholeheartedly commit our heart, soul, mind, and strength to Christ, we open the door to exploitation. This struggle does not always start with evil contempt.

Testimony: I remember a trip where our team leader was a remarkable man of God. At that time, my husband and I were still working through the challenges of our healing journey. As I listened to this leader speak, I felt drawn to the spirit he carried. Suddenly, troubling thoughts began to invade my mind. “Why can’t your husband be like him? Why are you wasting time fighting for a marriage when there’s someone who already has everything you need?” I tried to diminish these thoughts. Nevertheless, the enemy knew the desires of my heart for my marriage. He continued to exploit my vulnerability. The intrusive thought persisted as I began to envision this leader alongside me.

This incident made it clear that I still had a misunderstanding of what a covenant truly means. It highlighted that my desires were not aligned with kingdom principles. Instead, they were rooted in personal expectations and a heart condition that didn’t reflect God’s will. They excluded my spouse and leaned towards a fantasy rather than reflecting a covenant. If my thoughts had been kingdom-focused, I would have taken into account the wife of this man of God.

At that moment, the Holy Spirit intervened, saying, “Angie, what are you doing?” I quickly refocused and ran to my room! I fell to my knees and began to cry. Father, forgive me! I began to repent and asked the Holy Spirit to clean my heart, mind, soul, and spirit. I asked Him to cut off all the lies the enemy had used against me. These were lies meant to ensnare me and jeopardize our marriage. When I returned home, I told my husband what had happened. This assured me that the doors I opened were completely obliterated!

The significance of the Holy Spirit in our journey with Christ can’t be overstated. Joseph’s ability to withstand the advances of Potiphar’s wife stemmed from the fulfillment he found in his relationship with Christ. He faced temptation but did not yearn for it. His heart was already satisfied. This satisfaction enabled him to stand firm against such challenges. Our ultimate goal is to immerse ourselves so deeply in Christ that temptation loses its allure completely. We find ourselves lacking nothing! This means the enemy has no bait that can lure us in. We won’t get hooked!

Joseph made every effort to steer clear of Potiphar’s wife, ultimately fleeing from her when her persistence became too much. At times, simply trying to sidestep temptation isn’t enough. We must actively escape from it. This is especially true when the allure is strong, as it often is with sexual temptation. “Run from anything that stimulates youthful lusts. Instead, pursue righteous living, faithfulness, love, and peace. Enjoy the companionship of those who call on the Lord with pure hearts.” (2 Tim. 2:22) We either yearn for God’s will or indulge in the illusion that we can manage our own lives. Like Potiphar’s wife, the spirit of Jezebel seeks to dominate everyone and everything!

Reflecting on what you desire, crave, and long for reveals what spirit guides you. Do you surrender or do you seek to exert control? Take a moment for self-reflection. The toughest truths to face are often those we refuse to acknowledge. Do I desire to control Relationships, Money, and Governance? What about Information, Leadership, and Conversations? Or Platforms, Narrative, and Agenda? Do I wish to control Time, Decisions, and Environment? This includes Family, your image, and energy. Furthermore, sexuality and God?

Prayer,

Heavenly Father, I come before you today seeking clarity about my true desires and yearnings. Reveal the areas in my life that do not reflect your nature. Help me to identify and turn away from my struggles with self-control, which I am all too familiar with. Lead me away from the snares that the enemy sets to pull me back into old habits, especially the influence of the Jezebel spirit. I renounce any connection to this spirit and replace it with the Fruits of the Spirit. Holy Spirit, I surrender my life completely to you. I ask for your forgiveness for anyone, including…(name), whom I have tried to manipulate or control for my own benefit. I forgive myself for being deceived and deceitful. I release the shame and any negative feelings I carry from my past actions. I renounce who I was, and I claim who you say I am. The Holy Spirit is the only one who has permission to be Lord over my life. I am a daughter fully surrendered to the Lord on Height- Jesus Christ! I desire, crave, and long only for you! AMEN!

ZIPPORAH

On the way to Egypt, at a place where Moses and his family had stopped for the night, the Lord confronted him and was about to kill him. ²⁵ But Moses’ wife, Zipporah, took a flint knife and circumcised her son. She touched his feet^[a] with the foreskin and said, “Now you are a bridegroom of blood to me.” ²⁶ (When she said “a bridegroom of blood,” she was referring to the circumcision.) After that, the Lord left him alone. Exodus 4:24-26

In this passage, God spoke to Moses after his family set out on their mission to “deliver His people from Egypt.” One might wonder why Moses didn’t take a moment to consider his family’s well-being before starting this journey. This scripture serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of prioritizing “ministry beginning at home” before moving forward. It requires us to pause and pray, “Lord, is there anything in my life or my family’s life that needs attention before we begin our journey?” While this may seem straightforward and obvious, in the excitement of our calling, we often overlook these crucial inquiries.  

When Zipporah said, “Now you are a bridegroom of blood to me,”  this statement grabbed my attention.  If you read this verse in the AMPC Bible it states that “Along the way at a [resting] place, the Lord met [Moses] and sought to kill him [made him acutely and almost fatally ill.] [Now apparently he had failed to circumcise one of his sons, his wife being opposed to it; but seeing his life in such danger] Zipporah took a flint knife and cut off the foreskin of her son and cast it to touch [Moses’] feet, and said, Surely a husband of blood you are to me.!” (vs. 24-25)

In Jewish tradition, a Mohel is the one designated to carry out circumcision, and any other person performing the act is deemed invalid, even if a rabbi is present. So, what made this particular act in the scripture permissible? Was this Zipporah’s punishment for not allowing her husband to lead? Was the blood on her hands a picture of correction? These ideas may seem harsh, but we must understand the influence we carry as a spouse. Do you currently have blood on your hands because you still choose to be disobedient within your marriage? It’s not about who does or doesn’t do what, instead, it’s about obedience! Are you a wife who encourages your spouse to be obedient even if it costs you something?

Let’s consider the role of the wife in this scenario. Her reaction seems to stem from her strong conviction against circumcising their son, which ultimately led to her husband suffering a severe, nearly life-threatening illness as a result of his disobedience. This defiance is significant because he chose to prioritize his wife’s wishes over God’s divine instruction. Zipporah has a background of Midianite heritage. For her, circumcision represented a customary rite marking a young man’s transition into marriage, while the Hebrews viewed it as a vital symbol of their covenant with God. It seems as though Zipporah didn’t fully grasp the significance of Moses’ covenant. Her familiarity with her cultural practices created a gap in their shared household beliefs.

Many couples enter marriage carrying the weight of their traditional backgrounds, rather than circumcising those influences so they can begin creating their unique traditions and ministry within their new marriage covenant. Instead, we bring our respective traditions into the relationship, expecting the husband to harmonize everything seamlessly.

Our families must be in order. Our family dynamics can become chaotic due to our “good intentions.” Instead of allowing our spouse to take the lead, we sometimes rush ahead, which can lead to them stepping back over time, and in turn, they let us take control. As easy as this is for us to do, DON’T! This shows our spouse, kids, and others an independent attitude of,  “I don’t need your father, or I don’t need your mother, I can lead this household on my own.” This will start to unravel our families because it creates an open door of division instead of being a household within a covenant.

The core concern is that God entrusts man with the responsibility for the family’s well-being, as illustrated in this narrative. Regardless of personal decisions, God communicated directly with Moses. If we genuinely support and have faith in our husbands, we should strive to do everything we can to enable them to thrive in the sight of the Lord. This commitment brings joy to our Heavenly Father, as we recognize that our desires are fulfilled when we prioritize our spouse.

A helpmate is not a term that belittles; rather, it reveals a powerful truth. We witness nations falling apart due to disobedience to God’s law. What often goes unnoticed is that the fate of our families and spouse is significantly shaped by our actions-that’s the incredible power and responsibility we hold as wives. Are you a helpmate who guides your family toward triumph, or do you lead them into despair? Our adversary seeks to keep us from grasping this truth because it would transform the understanding of a woman’s role within “ The Marriage Covenant.” In today’s society, so many believe the lie that being a wife requires being submissively ruled by a husband. We are indeed called to submit to our husband, yet we are also called to submit to the authority of Christ, and both of us should line up with the Word of God. This means our position as a wife is determined by how we position our husband first and vice versa.

In this critical moment, Zipporah understood the need to follow God’s command, knowing that her husband would suffer severe repercussions otherwise. She took action by circumcising their son, reinforcing their family’s commitment back to God. This choice left her with blood on her hands, as she had not allowed Moses to take the lead in their home. What choices are you making that are causing you to bear the weight of disobedience? Often, we hastily point fingers at our husbands when things are out of order in our household. I urge you to reflect on the word curses you may have spoken over your spouse and renounce them. This is very important!

Obedience plays a crucial role in every aspect of our lives, especially within our home. The scriptures highlight the rewards that come with obedience: “If you fully obey the Lord your God and carefully keep all his commands that I am giving you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations of the world. You will experience all these blessings if you obey the Lord your God.” (Deut. 28:1-2) Following God’s command opens the door to His blessing, as He honors those who choose to obey Him. When God confronted Moses regarding his failures in upholding the practice of circumcision, may have stemmed from his wife’s influence or his shortcomings in leadership. Whatever the reason, we need to make sure we are not the cause of our husband’s disobedience to the will of the Father.

Communication plays a crucial role in a successful marriage! When a family shares a mission, they collectively grasp their purpose. This unity creates an environment of partnership and trust. Family members recognize that your words serve to correct, uplift, nurture, and guide them along the right path. This approach is essential for establishing harmony, structure, and a clear direction for everyone involved. It’s not just the responsibility of mom and dad; it’s truly “a family on a mission.” Adopting this mindset encourages us to be more deliberate in maintaining order within our home. James 4:17 states, “So any person who knows what is right to do but does not do it, to him it is sin.” How can we disciple others by leading them to God if our own family doesn’t follow the same commandments? The Lord needed Moses to understand this concept before He sent Moses to set His people free!” How can we guide others toward God if our own family doesn’t adhere to the same principles? The Lord needed Moses to comprehend this idea before sending him to liberate His people! Correction is needed before God can use us to our full potential.

Are you teaching your family how to submit to authority or rebel against authority? If rebellion is in the home or your heart, it will also reflect outside the home! What kind of ministry are you producing -Heaven or hell? What kind of atmosphere do you dwell in -speak life or speak death? Is your household freely under authority? Is your family producing fruit? Are your spouse and children excited to be a part of what you do, or do you pull them around and threaten them to fake it? Ministry outside the home is a wonderful thing when we are reproducing good fruit. This requires, making our family the most important ministry first!

PRAYER:

I encourage you to explore this blog and seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit concerning any areas of your life where you feel the need for repentance, forgiveness, or a heart’s desire for genuine submission. This journey may begin with an act of going before the Lord in repentance. Then engage in open conversation with your spouse, children, or others close to you. Take your time and allow the Holy Spirit to reveal where you might have introduced chaos, conflict, or a controlling spirit within yourself and your family. What doors did you allow opened through your words or attitude? Ask for His help in discerning whether your actions align with the kingdom of heaven or the kingdom of darkness. While this may feel overwhelming, it’s essential to ensure that we are not leading ourselves or others astray. When you feel ready, ask the Holy Spirit if there is any blood on your hands due to disobedience, spirit of independence, or rebellion. If there is, renounce it, acknowledge it, bring it to the cross, and invite the Holy Spirit to renew you and fill you in those areas. Be still in prayer and listen closely to His voice. Once you finish praying, express your gratitude because he is a good, good, Father. Amen!

JOCHEDED

About this time, a man and woman from the tribe of Levi got married. ² The woman became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She saw that he was a special baby and kept him hidden for three months. ³ But when she could no longer hide him, she got a basket made of papyrus reeds and waterproofed it with tar and pitch. She put the baby in the basket and laid it among the reeds along the bank of the Nile River.”  Exodus 2:1-3

A woman of God is filled with Joy at the prospect of welcoming a baby boy, even during a challenging season. In the face of uncertainty, she decided to place her trust in God regarding her son’s future. Trusting God required her to hold her son’s life loosely, which required her to embrace the unknown. She understood God’s timing is flawless, His plans are always timely, and they lead to divine opportunities, no matter the new decree presented.

In times of trial or difficulty, our doubts can open the door for the enemy to plant seeds of uncertainty. It often starts with familiar fears that may stem from our past, present, or even the unknown of our future. Before we know it, we find ourselves overanalyzing situations, forgetting that it was God who first placed His blessing upon us! When we let fear challenge the intentions behind God’s actions, we begin to tighten our hold on control. This behavior creates a stronghold rooted in the “fears of uncertainty.” It’s a moment when negative thought patterns, prideful attitudes, or external influences leave a deep mark on the heart and mind of a believer. This shift happens when we no longer trust God’s perfect plan during challenging moments.

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by circumstances beyond your grasp? It’s important to be cautious about the idea of control. When we unknowingly activate this stronghold, we find ourselves gripping tighter, believing we can regain our footing. The more we try to hold on, the more we risk losing our grip entirely.

By choosing to approach situations loosely, we communicate to God, “I trust you, even if it makes no sense through my own understanding.” Isaiah 55:8 states, “My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the Lord. And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine. For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.”

Think about the day you dedicated your child back to Christ. What significance did that dedication hold? We publicly declare to hold on to our child loosely while “directing your children onto the right path and when they are older, they will not leave it.” (Proverbs 22:6) Jochebed made the profound choice to return her child to God by releasing him, even if it meant her plans were set aside. She hid her son and placed him in a small papyrus basket, setting him adrift in the river. She entrusted God with her son’s future. As she watched him float away, she surrendered him to God’s will, grateful for the blessing of motherhood. She walked away, confident that God would fulfill His promises for both her and her son. While this act may have seemed illogical in the physical realm, it was a spiritual decision that allowed God to work out His purpose for Moses, his family, and the people of Israel. This act served to inspire others around her to the powerful lesson of trusting God.

In the natural, circumstances may seem impossible, but if we stop for a moment, repent of our lack of trust (control), loosen our grip, and concentrate on God, we can begin to see His plan. Psalms 25:4-6 states, “Show me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow. Lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long, I put my hope in you.”

I encourage you to pay attention to how you react. Do your emotions reveal your fears rather than the actual challenges you face? The story of Jochebed serves as a powerful example of how to navigate through difficult times. She sets aside her need to control, recognizing that true obedience aligns with God’s will. By releasing our grip, we place our trust in Him, allowing God to act on our behalf. Like Jochebed, we can confidently move forward, knowing God will fulfill His promise! Sometimes the answers to our situation require the courageous act of letting go!”

In which area of your life do you find it challenging to place your trust in God, whether they are significant or minor? What is the root behind you clinging so firmly? Is there an experience or a familiar situation that influences your response? Does your behavior reflect that state of your heart? How do you react when encouraged to release something or someone? What feelings arise in those moments? Are you holding on tightly because it defines who you are, maintains your current situation, or perhaps even relates to a title you hold? None of these factors should hinder us from fulfilling the will of the Father!

Prayer:

We come before you, Father, asking for your forgiveness for the times we’ve read your Word yet overlooked the profound power in each story. Thank you for opening our eyes and ears to the truths found within your teachings. Today, I choose to release everything you have asked me to let go of over the years. Take this time to list them…and give them back to God…We repent for our moments of doubt in your promises and for our desire to maintain control. Forgive us for being disobedient to the Holy Spirit. Align my heart with yours so that I may fulfill your will by placing my trust in you completely. Forgive me for allowing the familiar situation to provoke fear or uncertainty in my responses. Help me to stop questioning your intentions. I ask that you reveal any “open doors” from my past that lead me to cling too tightly to what is at hand. Ask the Holy Spirit to bring these things to your mind and wait….. Then renounce them…. I choose to move forward, knowing that no matter what happens, you are always a good, good, Father. We give you all the glory, honor, and praise, in Jesus’ Name, I let it go!! Amen!